Nealisms

I'm Still Here

2009-07-01T10:24:00.000-07:00

It has been so long since my last post. Life happens and is hectic. I've had two very dear people go into surgery and recover well so far, my son has deployed and I have yet to see him since he joined the Air Force in May 08 (minus my visit to his graduation), schoo, work....and one child still at home all keep me VERY busy.

I have lost track of time and lost the ability to find time for myself to just sit down and express my thoughts. Somehow, I still need to find time to study for my ITIL exam and continue to learn my job.

Is the holiday season here yet? I need a break...LOL!

What is a military wife?

2009-07-01T10:22:00.000-07:00

Each one may look different and each is wonderfully unique,
But this they have in common:

Lots of moving...
Moving...
Moving...
Moving far from home...
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog...all riding with HER of course.
Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house;
Moving curtains that won't fit;
Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends;
Moving toward new friends;
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories.

Often waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting for housing.
Waiting for orders.
Waiting for deployments.
Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions.
Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home,
For dinner...AGAIN!

They call her 'Military Dependent', but she knows better:
She is fiercely In-Dependent.

She can balance a check book;
Handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet;
Bury the family pet...

She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.
She can file the taxes;
Sell a house;
Buy a car;
Or set up a move...
.....all with ONE Power of Attorney.

She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS;
Locates a house in the desert,
The Arctic,
Or the deep south.
And learns to call them all 'home'.
She MAKES them all home.

Military Wives are somewhat hasty...
They leap into:
Decorating,
Leadership,
Volunteering,
Career alternatives,
Churches,
And friendships.
They don't have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short but flexible.
They plant annuals for themselves and perennials for those who come after
them.

Military Wives quickly learn to value each other:
They connect over coffee,
Rely on the spouse network,
Accept offers of friendship and favors.
Record addresses in pencil...

Military Wives have a common bond:
The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands; his commitment is
unique.
He doesn't have a 'JOB'
He has a 'MISSION' that he can't just decide to quit...
He's on-call for his country 24/7.
But for her, he's the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign
TDY
PCS
OPR
SOS
ACC
BDU
ACU
BAR
CIB
TAD
And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long- distance link to keep them informed; the glue that holds them together.

A Military Wife has her moments:
She wants to wring his neck;
Dye his uniform pink;
Refuse to move to Siberia;
But she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days,
A travel brochure,
A long hot bath,
A pledge to the flag,
A wedding picture,
And she goes.
She packs.
She moves.
She follows.

Why?
What for?
How come?
You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart .
It was stolen from her by a man,
Who puts duty first,
Who longs to deploy,
Who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military
Husband,
She will remain his military wife.
And would have it no other way.

--Author Unknown

Holidays

2008-11-26T09:55:00.000-08:00

As we move closer to the holidays, I am reminded of all that I have to be thankful for.

Family
A husband who can tolerate my attitude(s)
Great kids
Friends (Old and New)
Reconnecting with some I had lost touch with
My health
A career I love
A job (especially in the current economic environment)
A new President

What are you thankful for this year?

Me and Prop 8

2008-11-09T16:04:00.000-08:00

I was shocked that Prop 8 passed, to say the least. I personally don't think the television ads made the difference one way or another, people who are affected by this issue have their stance and those with moral or religious beliefs have theirs.

I do think that this is a Civil Rights issue. Much like interacial marriages between white and black, hispanics or asians were illegal as recently at 1967, these types of marriages remain illegal because a portion of the American population either doesn't know or care to know these people.

If we call it a Civil Union instead of a marriage would many of the religious opponents see it differently? A large part of LOVE is being able to be with and take care of someone you love, in whatever way you feel. Is it right to tell someone you can be together, but you can't provide healthcare or financial benefit? How can any person assume to know what is right for another adult? Religious beliefs are peronal and should not infringe upon the rights of another human being that doesn't believe the same as another. Calling it marriage invites the debate between church and state to be involved, which is part of the problem.

Can we make something a law that is based in religion and descrimination?

Random thoughts about our new leadership

2008-11-09T12:15:00.001-08:00

I have heard so many thoughts and comments about our new president. Arguments about everything from; Is he REALLY black? Does it matter that he's black? Is the he the Reagan of the Democrats? Is he taxing people over $250k? $200k? $150k? The questions go on and on.

The media and his critics couldn't wait for his first press conference so they could latch onto anything to create a negative spin. (The Nancy Reagan comment). However, just once could we see an good ol' positive? For instance, he commented about wanting a shelter dog, but most of them are mutts, "like me". Aren't most Americans? Can't most of us unit behind a comment like that, even just for the humor in it.

Or maybe, unit behind the fact that he came out and said the United States has one president at a time and tried to focus the country on continuing to follow their current leader. I for one applaud both John McCain and Barack Obama for being gracious in victory and defeat. John McCain has continue to display the qualities that make him a great American and contender. Admittedly, he may have had my vote were it not for his choice of running mate.

America loves to boast of being a melting pot and how our diversity makes us stronger. Its time to put our money where our mouths are and stand behind our ELECTED winner. If you didn't use your voice to vote when you had a chance.....then SHUT THE F&^% UP and wait until 2012. To those who did vote ....no matter who your candidate.....thank you for voting....thank you for taking the time to execise you right.....people died to give it you.....embrace it.

Is Racism dead in America?

2008-10-16T08:27:00.000-07:00

After watching this video it's hard to believe that it's just the "fringe" element that is showing up at McCain/Palin rallies. While I DO NOT think McCain is a racist, I do think people are so afraid of a non-white president that they will go to extremes to feel safe from the unknown.

Question?

2008-09-16T11:54:00.002-07:00

Considering the Stock Market and banks filing bankruptcy.

Would you buy a house in the current market?

Gotta Say Something...

2008-09-15T08:54:00.000-07:00

Normally, I wouldn't comment on anything political, but these results forced me to. For anyone not voting or unsure please consider the following:

War is ugly, but with current technology do we really need to continue to sacrifice our soldiers. Until leadership makes it their mission to get someone down in the weeds assigning deployments equally across the board and not abusing a select few excessive for deployments, we need to consider a change. Yes, I know nothing is 100% equal, but don't try to tell me it is OK for soldiers who have been in for 5+ years and not have deployed by now, while I see family and friends taking trip 3, 4, and 5.

Please keep in mind while, I appreciate John McCain for his duty to this country, he know wants to disband the VA and push veterans into civilian care. Rather than correct the issues with the VA and continue to give veterans a safe haven with Dr. and others who understand their ailments and demons. I have been the with military my whole life and I have slowly watched REPUBLICANS strip away the few benefits we have, while trying to appease every one with a slightly larger pay raise that what the DEMOCRATS provide.

I am neither a Democrat or a Republican. I am an Army wife and child and an Air Force Mother. I am a woman with career who values her family, her home and her rights.

Please Vote!

Wordle and me

2008-07-14T18:46:00.004-07:00

My aching feet

2008-07-07T09:01:00.002-07:00

So we had a whirlwind vacation last week, but was great. I actually got to see my husband smile, relax and have some real fun.

We started the week off in San Diego and spent time at Sea world. The kids had a blast petting and feeding the Bat Rays and so did I. I love anything to do with ocean life.

Went to see Wanted....Awesome!

While in San Diego I had the best Mexican food I have ever had in my life. There guacamole was to die for. I had guacamole enchiladas and a side a of guacamole. Needless to say, I was beyond stuffed.

We then hustled over to Vegas to take my SIL and her family around town. Took a stab at Priceline and go rooms at Planet Hollywood for 70 bucks per night the day before 4th of July. I couldn't ask for a better room at that price. We walked the kids to death and suffered through The Sirens of TI show (cheesy..in a bad way). The next day we tried the celebrated Bellagio buffet at it's special 4th of July price of $29.95 per person. We were totally let down and not impressed.

We then headed back the other way to spend the day at Universal Studios...HOOOOTTT! Walked everyone to death again, but we did see the Hollywood sign on the way and drove around West Hollywood. Again not impressed.

We ended the day with a meal at the Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. The food was great and the staff sang Happy Birthday to my usually grouchy husband. The man actually got up and danced. Even after the waitress shoved a spoonful of his birthday sundae in his face and up his nose. IT WAS GREAT!!!

Now for the vacation...from the vacation! Sleep.

New look

2008-06-27T14:04:00.002-07:00

So, I was inspired by Shanez to update my page. After two plus years I thought I would have a go at it. I would like some feedback from everyone is possible regarding readability, colors, locations...etc..

All opinions are welcome!!

Musuems visited: Ripleys, Madame Toussauds, Guiness World Records.....and last but not least THE ALAMO

2008-06-20T07:32:00.000-07:00

This was the entrance to the Horror portion of Madame Toussaud's. If only I had been prepared we would be able to watch a video of Dante' running up the stairs after hearing the screams. Needless to say he decided not to enter. :)

Robert Wadlow was 9 feet tall, let's hope James stops growing before he gets close to that.

An actaual vampire killing kit...believe it or not.

The world's heaviest man weighed in at 1400lbs, I don't know what Dante' was thinking.

Next time on Oprah...Dante'

We thought this was funny. We've been to Berlin and touched pieces of the wall and walked the line that remains in Berlin. However, we had to come to Texas to touch the largest piece that remains of it.

This city has some of the most beautfil old buildings, very gothic.

.....and The Alamo!
As we drove up they both chimed in unison...."that's it". I then had to explain that it was built by hand and without it, we wouldn't have Texas.

This had me laughing so hard...(thanks Julie)

2008-06-05T08:43:00.001-07:00

BARACK OBAMA: The chicken crossed the road because it was time for a change!
The chicken wanted change!
JOHN MC CAIN: My friends, that chicken crossed the road because he
recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the
chickens on the other side of the road.
HILLARY CLINTON: When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little
chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to
ensure - right from Day One! that every chicken in this country gets the
chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn't about me.
GEORGE W. BUSH: We don't really care why the c chicken crossed the road. We
just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The
chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.
DICK CHENEY: Where's my gun?
COLIN POWELL: Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the
satellite image of the chicken crossing the road.
BILL CLINTON: I did not cross the road with that chicken. What is your
definition of chicken?
AL GORE: I invented the chicken.
JOHN KERRY: Although I voted to let the chicken cross the road, I am now
against it! It was the wrong road to cross, and I was misled about the
chicken's intentions. I am not for it now, and will remain against it.
AL SHARPTON: Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.
DR. PHIL: The problem we have here is that this chicken won't realize that
he must first deal with the problem on this side of the road before it goes
after the problem on the other side of the road. What we need to do is help
him realize how stupid he's acting by not taking on his current problems
before adding new problems.
OPRAH: Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why
he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn
from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I'm going to give
this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live
his life like the rest of the chickens.
ANDERSON COOPER, CNN: We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we
have not yet been allowed to have access to the other side of the road.
NANCY GRACE: That chicken crossed the road because he's guilty! You can see
it in his eyes and the way he walks.
PAT BUCHANAN: To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.
MARTHA STEWART: No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was
going. I had a standing order at the Farmer's Market to sell my eggs when
the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider
information.
DR SEUSS: Did the chicken cross the road? Did he cross it with a toad?
Yes, the chicken crossed the road, but why it crossed I've not been told.
ERNEST HEMINGWAY: To die in the rain, alone.
JERRY FALWELL: Because the chicken was gay! Can't you people see the plain
truth? That's why they call it the 'other side.' Yes, my friends, that
chicken is gay. And if you eat that chicken, you will become gay, too. I say
we boycott all chickens until we sort out this abomination that the liberal
media whitewashes with seemingly harmless phrases like 'the other side.'
That chicken should not be crossing the road. It's as plain and as simple as
that.
GRANDPA: In my day we didn't ask why the chicken crossed the road.
Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.
BARBARA WALTERS: Isn't that interesting? In a few moments, we will be
listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart warming story
of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish
its lifelong dream of crossing the road.
ARISTOTLE: It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.
JOHN LENNON: Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together,
in peace.
BILL GATES: I have just released eChicken2008, which will not only cross
roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your
checkbook. Internet Explorer is an integral part of eChicken2008. This new
platform is much more stable and will never reboot.
ALBERT EINSTEIN: Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move
beneath the chicken?
COLONEL SANDERS: Did I miss one?

Introducing A1 Christian

2008-06-02T12:26:00.002-07:00

We spent a whirlwind 4 days in San Antonio, TX for James' graduation from Basic. It was painfully hot and humid (95 degrees or more), but we were so excited to see James that we struggled through.

James appears to have grown during basic and has gained weight (6'6" and about 175lbs now). It is amazing how much someone can mature and change in 6 weeks, but I have seen it for myself. He is now focused on college and his career. I always knew he would do great things and be successful...and it is all just beginning for him. We are TRULY proud of him.

Now for the pics.......

One of the cleanest bathrooms I have EVER seen.

This is the entry to the sleeping area, yes it was polished daily.

One word...... "Cozy"

No, he didn't fit on this...he said his feet hung over the edge or he could ball up on his side.

Dante' is SO proud of his big brother.

Taking the Enlisted Oath

Marching past the families.

More photos come....

Will I ever?

2008-04-24T19:03:00.002-07:00

So we have been here now 5 months and I have yet to build any real friendships. I have met two women that have potential, but one leave in 2 months and the other stays as busy as me. As a result, I have resorted to joining Yahoo Groups to meet other wives in the area. It's amazing how many of us are out there, looking for adult conversation, but never really having the time to meet face-to-face.

I love the friendships I already have and cherish them deeply, but its been tough with everyone scattered about in different time zones and no one to talk to when I do have the time to be bored. Oh yes, boredom happens and its happening more and more lately. I could fill my time with learning and self development, but I'm looking for fun and excitement.

Anyone have any ideas?

"Into the Blue"

2008-04-01T09:28:00.003-07:00

Well....it's official!

My baby is now wearing Air Force blue. Although I knew the day would come when he would venture out on his own, it was still a shock. While my mind told me he was going off to be his own man and face the world, my heart kept saying "he's my baby and too young to be out there in the big bad world".

I cried on and off all day, but also had moments of pride and happiness because I know how successful he will be. He's a good son and will be a great man.

Here's to you, Airman Christian!

Losing

2008-01-21T10:43:00.000-08:00

Well, it's official the weight has begun to fall off. I am now down 9.5 lbs. and feeling great.

I have focused on fruits, vegatables and making the effort to create my meals from scratch. I know have an addiction to smoothies and can't stop experimenting with flavors. Also, if you have never tried shopping at Trader Joe's, you don't know what you are missing. They focus on natural foods with not chemicals. (you can actually understand the ingredients listed on the package).

Hopeully, I'll hit my first goal by Spring break...

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2008-01-13T21:38:00.001-08:00

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Motivation

2007-12-19T07:00:00.000-08:00

Have you ever been at a point in your life when you knew you needed to do something, but just couldn't find the desire or motivation?

Well, I'm there AGAIN! I know that I need to get back on the wagon and lose weight for my health, but every time I am faced with a choice of what to eat..... I choose wrong. Then of course there is the aftermath of the overwhelming guilt for eating something I knew was wrong.

I don't want to be one of those women who lives her life floating on a constant sea of diets, I would rather subscribe to a "lifestyle change". I managed to do it successfully in Germany to the tune of 36lbs., but gained much of it back with my "lifestyle change" back in the U.S.

Argghhh! Now that I have acknowledged my issue, guess that means its time to face the music and just do it.

Alright team, let's do it for the Gipper!

It's Official...I have a home!

2007-12-06T22:33:00.000-08:00

He signed for the house today and we have keys in hand! Woo-hoo!

We walked into our brand new house and panic set in. After years of living in military quarters and being happy with what I had....my short departure set me up for a shock. Even though this house is brand new (never lived in) and has 2.5 bathrooms, laminate wood floors and granite counter tops.........the 1649 sq. ft was painful.

Our house was 2350 sq. ft and somehow in the span of 2.7 years we managed to fill it. Now we are trying to figure out what to purge, what to place in storage, and what to live with. Granted I have never lived in quarters with this much square footage, I'm still a bit freaked.

Also in my 2.7 years in my own house, I began to love walls with color. The white walls of this house seem so stark. Never-the-less, the furniture goes in tomorrow and I will learn to love it. I'm sure it will be packed to the hilt and we will feel closer than ever as a family (pun INTENDED).

Do you suppose the military does this on purpose....?
They cram you and your family into a tiny hotel room with 2 beds, 2 chairs, 1 desk, a fridge and a microwave to make you appreciate what little space they give you. I'm convinced it's a conspiracy cooked up between the contractors and the DOD.

Then again, it could be stemming from the insanity that developed from living so closely with two teenagers and grouchy husband.

I love my family! :)

We're here!

2007-11-28T15:59:00.000-08:00

FINALLY!

As of Sunday we arrived in the Mojave. It's still as nice as I expected it to be. As we completed 10 mile stretch and crested the hill the child in the car with me let out a moan and said "that's it?"
In response, I remarked at how much it has grown since we were here 7 years ago, to which I received a "hmmph, Whatever".

The following day there was a quick shift in attitude...... One child remarked "it's so clean" and the other stated "everyone is so nice". All the while I was was smiling and thinking "that's the view I want my children to have of a community".

As for housing....we are the only ones on the list and have been told we could have a house by Monday or Tuesday. The house is part of the new construction on base and will require a $250.00 deposit PER pet. OUCH!

I started working again on Monday. There is some adjustment involved in working from home, but overall it's quite nice. I have more time to concentrate and think things through, but on the downside I can't just bounce an idea of the person next to me or pull a co-worker over to read my notes. As I continue to adjust I'm sure things will get better.

In the meantime, please send your prayers and/or good ju-ju my way to ensure I maintain my sanity while living in 1 hotel room with a husband and 2 teenagers. Oh the smells!!!!!

More updates to come.....

Ca-li-fornia here we come.........!

2007-11-20T21:02:00.000-08:00

So...most of you know we are on our way to sunny CA. The trip so far has been eventful to say the least.

1. The military has decided to take their time processing our claim for travel pay. The move should be completed by the time they pay up.
2. Despite numerous warnings from his Mother. James decided not to get a good nights sleep the two night before driving and managed to run off the road within 4 hours of beginning the trip.
3. We forgot to set out the last bit of trash. (about 5 bags)
4. We forgot to submit the change of address form IN ADVANCE.

Part of me would like to say..."what else can go wrong?", but thankfully I'm not that crazy.

More updates to come...wish me luck and anything else that will get me through this with my sanity in tact.

Wednesday Hero - Lt. Michael P. Murphy

2007-10-21T21:48:00.000-07:00

This Week's Hero Was Suggested By Cindy

Lt. Michael P. Murphy
29 years old from Patchogue, New York
SEAL Delivery Vehicle Team 1
June 28, 2005

On Monday, Lt. Michael P. Murphy was posthumously awarded the Medal Of Honor. His father was the one who accepted the award. Lt. Murphy will receive the award for his extraordinary, selfless heroism and steadfast courage while leading a four-man, special reconnaissance mission deep behind enemy lines east of Asadabad in the Hindu Kush of Afghanistan June 27 to 28, 2005

"We are thrilled by the President's announcement today, especially because there is now a public recognition of what we knew all along about Michael's loyalty, devotion and sacrifice to his friends, family, country, and especially his SEAL teammates," the Murphy family said in a statement released earlier in the month. "The honor is not just about Michael, it is about his teammates and those who lost their lives that same day."

Murphy was the officer-in-charge of the SEAL element, which was tasked with locating a high- level Taliban militia leader to provide intelligence for a follow-on mission to capture or destroy the local leadership and disrupt enemy activity. Taliban sympathizers discovered the SEAL unit and immediately revealed their position to Taliban fighters. The element was besieged on a mountaintop by scores of enemy fighters. The firefight that ensued pushed the element farther into enemy territory and left all four SEALs wounded. The SEALs fought with everything they had. despite being at a tactical disadvantage and outnumbered more than four to one. Understanding the gravity of the situation and his responsibility to his men, Murphy, already wounded, deliberately and unhesitatingly moved from cover into the open where he took and returned fire while transmitting a call for help for his beleaguered teammates. Shot through the back while radioing for help, Murphy completed his transmission while returning fire. The call ultimately led to the rescue of one severely wounded team member, Hospital Corpsman 2nd Class Marcus Luttrell, and the recovery of the remains of Murphy and Gunner’s Mate 2nd Class (SEAL) Danny Dietz and Sonar Technician 2nd Class (SEAL) Matthew Axelson.

Eight more SEALs and eight Army "Nightstalker" special operations personnel comprising the initial reinforcement also lost their lives when their helicopter was shot down before they could engage the enemy.

Murphy was also inducted into the Hall of Heroes at the Pentagon during a ceremony yesterday. His name was engraved beside the names of some 3,400 other service members who have also been awarded the nation’s highest honor.

These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived

This post is part of the Wednesday Hero Blogroll. For more information about Wednesday Hero, or if you would like to post it on your blog, you can go here.

Wednesday Hero - Bert Brady

2007-06-10T18:56:00.001-07:00

This Weeks Hero Was Suggested By Malinda

69-year-old Bert Brady has never stepped foot in Iraq or Afghanistan, yet many soldiers who have know who he is and appreciate what he's done for them. You see, for the past year Mr. Brady has made a trip to the Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport nearly every morning to welcome home returning American troops. Bert Brady, along with fellow veterans, is a member of the Welcome Home a Hero program. They make sure that every soldier who steps off a plane in Dallas gets a special homecoming.

Brady shows up each day with the goal of making soldiers feel appreciated and proud of their service. He's often joined by veterans of the Vietnam and Korean wars who did not get a warm reception when they returned from battle.

"We are not going to forget them like a lot of Vietnam soldiers have been forgotten," Brady said. "We are not going to forget the soldiers of today."

To read more about Bert Brady, you can go to ABCnews.com

These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived

This post is part of the Wednesday Hero Blogroll. To find out more about Wednesday Hero, you can go here.

Graduation 2007 !!!

2007-05-26T10:48:00.000-07:00

Words can't describe my happiness. He took his time getting there and didn't work as hard as he could have, but when the pressure was on he proved what he is capable of.

Watch out world!

Wednesday Hero - Lance Cpl. Steven Chavez

2007-05-14T21:03:00.001-07:00

This Weeks Soldier Was Suggested By Cindy

Lance Cpl. Steven Chavez
20 years old from Hondo, New Mexico
2nd Battalion, 4th Marine Regiment, 1st Marine Division, I Marine Expeditionary Force
March 14, 2007

Tears ran down cheeks and strong men choked back emotion as the city of Hondo, NM payed tribute to fallen Marine, Steven Chavez. LCpl. Chavez lost his life on March 14, 2007 in a non-combat incident in which he was accidentally shot.

Chavez enlisted in the Marine Cops. right after he graduated in 2005. "You pray and you pray that the day never comes, and then it does," said Novelda Chavez, Chavez's mother. "Your emotions are mixed — it’s not true, it’s a bad dream, a bad dream you never wake up from."

In a letter Chavez wrote before he was sent to Iraq, he wrote:
"First of all I would like to thank everyone for your support. When I'm home on leave and when I'm away. That is so important to me. Thank you for your kind, supporting words in your letters and for the packages I've received. Those are awesome.

I've been through some pretty hard times, in the short time I've been in the Marine Corp. None harder then what I'm about to face. Yes I'm scared; nothing is scarier than the uncertainty of what your future holds for you. I'm prepared to face whatever lies ahead.

I put my life in the hands of the Lord. And pray that He guides my fellow soldiers and I down a safe path, that He will calm our fears, and give us the strength to do the job we have been trained to do, and to do that job well.

There are many lonely nights, when you're lying in your bunk thinking of family and friends, wondering what they are doing at that very moment. Wondering what mom is cooking for supper. I can almost taste the tortillas on the griddle.

I want to say to all of you tonight, I wouldn't change one thing about my life.

I've never been more proud of the choices I made in my life than the day I graduated from basic drill instructor placed that Anchor, Globe and Eagle Pin in my hand I knew then I was a UNITED STATES MARINE!

I'm Proud to protect and serve My Country

I'm Proud to protect and serve My Community

I'm Proud to protect and serve you

Thank you so much for your Support. Keep those letters coming. Mail is a precious commodity when you're so far from Home.

YOUR U.S. MARINE

LANCE CORPORAL STEVE CHAVEZ"

These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived

This post is part of the Wednesday Hero Blogroll. To find out more about Wednesay Hero, you can go here.

Wednesday Hero - Hospitalman Luis E. Fonseca Jr.

2007-04-29T19:11:00.000-07:00

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Hospitalman Luis E. Fonseca Jr.

On August 11, 2004, Navel Hospitalman Luis E. Fonseca, Jr. was awarded the Navy's second highest decoration. The Navel Cross, which is awarded for extraordinary heroism while engaged in an action against an enemy of the United States and must be performed in the presence of great danger or at great personal risk, was awarded for his actions while serving with Amphibious Assault Vehicle Platoon, Company C, 1st Battalion, 2nd Marines, Task Force Tarawa, II Marine Expeditionary Force.

On March 23, 2004, Fonseca, Jr.'s unit were trying to take the Saddam Canal Bridge. Five Marines were injured when their vehicle was hit by an RPG. Fonseca, while still being fired upon by machine guns and RPG's, pulled the Marines to safety and established a casualty collection unit inside his own medical evacuation vehicle. After his vehicle was hit once again, Fonseca organized litter teams and directed the movement of four of the Marines, while personally carrying one wounded Marine over open ground to another vehicle. On November 15, 2004, Seaman Fonseca was awarded the "Grateful Nation Award" from the Jewish Institute for National Security Affairs for his actions.

"I was doing my job," said Fonseca. "I wish I could have done more."

These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived

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Wednesday Hero - Col. Cyril Richard "Rick" Rescorla

2007-04-22T14:16:00.000-07:00

This Weeks Soldier Was Suggested By Sunny Kay

Col. Cyril Richard "Rick" Rescorla
68 years old from New York City, New York
16th Air Assault Brigade, Parachute Regiment (England)
Platoon Leader of 2nd Battalion, 7th Cavalry Regiment, 1st Cavalry Division (Airmobile) (U.S.)
September 11, 2001

Col. Rick Rescorla is a multiple time hero. In 1957 he enlisted in the British Army and began training as a paratrooper with The Parachute Regiment of the 16th Air Assault Brigade. He went on to serve with an intelligence unit in Cyprus, a paramilitary police inspector in the Northern Rhodesia Police (now the Zambia Police Service). When his military career ended in England he joined the Metropolitan Police Service in London. But he found the paperwork too boring and quite at the behest of a friend who encouraged him to join the United State Army. Which he did.

In 1963, Rescorla enlisted, with his friend, in the United States Army. After he completed basic training he attended officer training school and was assigned as a platoon leader in the 2nd Battalion, 7th Cavalry Regiment, 1st Cavalry Division (Airmobile).

He was shipped to Vietnam and participated in the Battle of la Drang. While in Vietnam, he was given the nickname "Hard Core" by his men for his bravery in battle.

In 1968, Resorla became a U.S. citizen and continued his service in the Army Reserves until 1990 when he retired. In 1985 he joined a financial services firm, located in the World Trade Center, as security director.

In 1993, when the WTC was bombed, Rescorla was instrumental in evacuating people from the building. Afterwards, he enacted a policy in which all employees of the firm practiced evacuation drills every three months.

September 11, 2001. Rick Rescorla was supposed to be on vacation getting ready for his daughters wedding. Instead he was at work covering a shift for one of his deputies so that he could go on vacation. When American Airlines Flight 11 hit Tower 1, Rescorla ignored officials advice to stay put and opted instead to put his evacuation drills to use. While evacuating the 3,800 employees of his firm in Towers 2 and 5 he kept reminding them "be proud to be an American ...everyone will be talking about you tomorrow" and sang God Bless America over his bullhorn. When Flight 175 struck Tower 2, Rescorla had already evacuated most of the employees from his firm as well as many others from other floors. He then went back in, despite being told he needed to evacuate himself. The last known words anyone heard him say were, "As soon as I make sure everyone else is out". Tower 2 collapsed with Rick Rescorla last seen heading to the 10th floor looking for more people to help.

As a result of his actions that day, all but six employees of his firm made it out alive. One of those being him and three others being his deputies who followed him into Tower 2, Wesley Mercer, Jorge Velazquez, and Godwin Forde.

These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived

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God Bless

2007-04-21T23:08:00.000-07:00

I have pondered for days for something worthwhile to say about the senseless devastation at Virginia Tech. My heart, prayers and thoughts go out to the victims and their families and I wish the wounded a speedy recovery.

"Six degrees of separation" become more apparent to me everyday, as in a tragedy like this I know 2 people that bring me within 3 steps of the victims of Virginia Tech. Please do what you can to comfort these people in anyway possible.

Sixdegrees.org for VT
NetworkForGood

Blog, blog, blog

2007-03-17T20:43:00.000-07:00

I have been so lazy about blogging lately. I look at it almost everyday, but yet can't seem to think of anything worth writing.

However, I do have a question for everyone.....

Is aggression an emotion or a behavior?

Introducing WTF?!?!?!?!?

2007-02-20T19:32:00.001-08:00

WHO IS SAMWELL?

Bavaria in OK?

2007-02-20T19:26:00.000-08:00

I will definitely check to see if the Heisse Leibe (Vanilla Ice Cream with Hot Raspberry sauce) is authentic. They even brew their own beer.

Royal Bavaria House

Cracks Me Up

2007-02-02T15:13:00.000-08:00

While I have been on my mini-vacation I have had the luxury of catching up on my favorite talks shows and today was a winner. Watching Oprah and Paula Deen prepare one of Paula's decadent cakes.

Picture it...Paula is chatting away (as she normally does) and adding vanilla extract to a running mixer full over ingredients, when she drops the bottle into the mixer bowl. Instead of cutting power to the mixer, Paula instinctively runs away then realizes she should have cut the power and attempts to correct. While she is trying to turn off mixer the bottle is clinking and cake mix is flying out.

I'm sure this is one of those things you had to see to find humorous, but if you have ever seen an episode of Paula's show........I'm sure you know how funny she is.

I'll update if I can find a video of it on Oprah.com

Just call me DIRT

2007-01-20T16:08:00.001-08:00

Your Vocabulary Score: B

You have a zealous love for the English language, and many find your vocabulary edifying.

Don't fret that you didn't get every word right, your vocabulary can be easily ameliorated!

How's Your Vocabulary?

Fun......

2007-01-20T16:01:00.000-08:00

What American accent do you have? Your Result: The Midland "You have a Midland accent" is just another way of saying "you don't have an accent." You probably are from the Midland (Pennsylvania, southern Ohio, southern Indiana, southern Illinois, and Missouri) but then for all we know you could be from Florida or Charleston or one of those big southern cities like Atlanta or Dallas. You have a good voice for TV and radio.
Boston
The Northeast
The West
The Inland North
Philadelphia
North Central
The South
What American accent do you have? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

Ice, Ice Baby!

2007-01-14T14:47:00.000-08:00

The lastest winter storm to come through Oklahoma was doozy. We lost power on Friday, the first day and it's gotten progressively worse. Thankfully, the power was restored after about 5 hours. We were able to copy by playing an intense game of Monopoly Seattle edition.

James ventured out Saturday afternoon with some friends of his, which ended with a popped tire and minor damage to his friends car. Of course, the following day James was crazy enough to ask if he could then drive to the gym. His arguement was "how else do you expect me to learn to drive in ice and snow". Being the loving mother I am, I responded "how about when you are the on paying for the repairs". He gave up!

The ice on the ground is about an inch think and beautiful to look at. Enjoy!

(disregard pic dates, I'm too lazy to configure the camera)

Happy New Year!!!

2007-01-01T13:44:00.000-08:00

Well, we made it! We survived 2006 and even the dread 6/6/06. 2006 was an eventful year and I'm happy to see it go. I'm looking forward to 2007 and all that it brings, to include everything from the husbands homecoming to the my baby graduating high school.

I hope that everyone has a wonderful New Year and I hope that good things come to all of you.

Merry Christmas!

2006-12-25T08:41:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas to everyone! I'm blessed to be at home with my parents and with the knowledge that my husband will be home in 21 days!

I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!

Rumsfeld RESIGNS!

2006-11-08T10:09:00.000-08:00

Initially I was a big fan of this man, but as time moved on I think he made some bad choices.

What now?

Totally Awesome Movie

2006-11-04T20:58:00.000-08:00

If you loved the 80's and secretly still do, then you will love this movie. It was directed by the co-creator of the "Chapelle" show and narrated by Ben Stein. It's a spoof on all those wonderful 80's movies and is supposed to make you think that this particular film is a recently found, unreleased gem.

Could you ask for anything more?

November 7, 2006 on DVD

Dee Dee Dee!

2006-09-18T18:45:00.000-07:00

I hate taking pictures, but I loved this show so it was worth it. This is one of two pics I got with Carlos Mencia at 'The Punisher' tour. It's hard to believe he took the time to come to Oklahoma, but he REALLY did. The kids got autographed T-shirts and I got an autographed pic of me and Carlos in a semi-hug. (I will post it shortly)

Was it me who said there was no excitement in Oklahoma?

James has a Book Quote to offer

2006-09-06T22:26:00.000-07:00

Those of you know James, also know that he likes to read as well. However, sporadic and random it may be, he does it on his own. He was interested in my Book Quotes post and rushed to get a book of his own to add. He grabbed the closest book, which was located on the closet floor and gave this jewel:

"Go out a little bit, and I'll hit you a grounder."
"Why did I sign up for this? I should just move."
"Ready? Now, be sure to run up to the ball. Don't let it roll to you."
"Are you OK? Sometimes the ball bounces up like that, and you've got to be ready."
"Thags for the tib, Dad. Fide my node and pud id in ice so they can sew id bag od!"
-The Calvin and Hobbes Tenth Anniversary Book

I love my child!

Book Quotes.......

2006-09-06T21:59:00.000-07:00

I saw this on Trying to Grok and thought it would be fun. I have books waiting to be read, but can't seem to get life to slow down enough so I can read them. Anywho, here goes...........

BOOK QUOTES

1. Grab the nearest book.
2. Open the book to page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the text of the next 3 sentences on your Blog (Please include the book and author) along with these instructions.
5. Don’t you dare dig for that "cool" or "intellectual" book in your closet! I know you were thinking about it! Just pick up whatever is closest.
6. Tag five people.

I have two books stacked neatly on my nightstand....but the one on top is the first in line to be read.

"I had not yet heard of thongs (!) and therefore obsessed maniacally over how to banish panty lines, themselves the focus of many a coffee-break critique. No matter how many times I tried them on, I couldn't bring myself to wear a tube top to work."- The Devil Wears Prada

To counter the fluff, I offer the second book in line:

"As for why, he had read about the case and was curious, just wanted to se what the place looked like. "And then," according to Mr. Helm's memory of the episode, "somebody asked him was he a hitchhiker? Hitchhiking his way to New Mexico? No, he said, he was driving his own car." - In Cold Blood

And just to show how random I can be.............this was on the shelf under the TV:

(This book only has 94 pages, so I chose page 23.)
'"At first I was annoyed with the obvious simplicity of the story because it sounded like something we might have been told in school.
"Then I realized I was really annoyed with myself for not seeing the obvious and doing what works when things change.
"When I realized the four characters in the story represented the various parts of myself, I decided who I wanted to act like and I changed.' - Who Moved My Cheese?

And now to tag five people:

Shanez
Julie
Jennifer
Kelly (now you have a few things to post)
Erin

Busy Busy Busy.......

2006-08-23T20:46:00.000-07:00

Life has been so hectic lately. The old adage still holds true "Everything that can go wrong, will go wrong, will the spouse is deployed".

A sampling of my life to date:

It all started with a flat tire on James' car
Distributor went out on James' car
Electric out in the dashboard of James' car ( do you see a pattern beginning?)
Battery literally blew a top in the Maxima
Shattered back window of my 1 yr. old truck
Lawn mower decided it's out for a long sleep and had to be replaced
Pool water went wonky-bonky
Garage side door decided to drop it's bottom quarter off
City of Lawton in the midst of water shortage....can only water lawns every other day from midnight to noon, depending on your address
I'll keep my eyes peeled for this one to occur........:)

However, on the bright side, I talk to my husband almost everyday and my kids are happy and healthy. What more could a girl ask for?

Here's to everyone having a GREAT life!

This one is for Shanez......

2006-07-29T23:21:00.000-07:00

Five things in my purse
1. my XM radio
2. Chapstick
3. Pens
4. wallet
5. back up imodium AD, benadryll and female products.

Five things in my refrigerator
1. 2 Gallons of Milk (always)
2. capri suns
3. Leftovers
4. eggs
5. deli meat

Five things in my closet
1. clothes
2. shoes
3. purses
4. Febreeze
5. German candy from Tekeyiah (hidden from the kids)

Five things in my car
1. Toll booth pass
2. cds
3. XM antenna and power
4. Change
5. maps

Hmmmmm.............who to tag......

Julie, Kelly, and Jen.........

No excitement

2006-07-13T20:24:00.000-07:00

I haven't really had things to blog about. The kids are great, Deantree is finally at his new home-away-from-home and I'm alive.

The job is great and there is so much too learn.

I've had things on my mind, but not sure I want to broadcast my opinions on this page. All sorts of things are swirling in my head like; Ann Coulter, Iraq, the current state of the US Military and a new book I purchased '"Passing" for Who You Really Are" Essays in Multiracial Whiteness'........(don't ask).

Considering much of the backlash that Sarah experienced in the past, I just don't know if I'm ready to open up to any of that yet......................but I think I'm working up to it.

In the meantime on a brighter note......... check out the Marc Laimon Cobra Kai Jiu-Jitsu team .

Look out for this up and coming UFC fighter....(5th row down, at the end of the row).

He's a personal favorite!

First Day

2006-06-26T19:23:00.000-07:00

I survived my first day at work. I was so excited about this day to come and it all passed by like a whirlwind.

I bounced out of bed at 0500 ready to face the day. Then it all got really hectic.........

I really wanted to make a good impression, so I tried on 5 different shirts (didn't want to be under dressed).
...and two pairs of shoes.
Only to find out that just about anything goes accept lingerie, pajamas and ratty jeans. However, "dress for the job you want" is still the motto.

I left with plenty of time to spare, but ended up in a snap behind a lovely accident.

Thankfully, Dell had breakfast waiting during orientation.

4.5 hours later, we were free to eat lunch (on site cafeteria with food cooked to order)

Here's were I though things would slow down, but OH NO! They picked up. I locate my supervisor and I am immediately issued a login, laptop, cell phone, desk and a run down of duties. They top it off by notifying me that I will be departing in 30 days for 1 week of training at Round Rock, TX. (No pressure, right?)

I decompressed on the ride home, cooked some dinner and hung out with the kids as long as they tolerated me. Now I am in a daze and can't wait to get to bed. However, I can't wait to see what tomorrow brings.

So far, I love it!

Ft. Hood Pt. 3

2006-06-19T06:43:00.000-07:00

Well, it's official. We made our third and final trip to Ft. Hood this weekend. I'm so proud of myself and the fact that I didn't cry when I dropped him off. Dante' had to be peeled off of his 'Daddy', but regained his composure much faster than before.

(What a way to spend Father's Day.)

We can now begin the real countdown and prepare for his return. I miss him so much already, but I know he has a job to do and he will do it well.

Memories of Germany

2006-06-13T18:46:00.000-07:00

I was going through some old pics on the machine and found .....

Me, Jen and D made a day trip of the Blackforest. We rented a convertible Mercedes and sped off. We saw the waterfall (I didn't go up, they did), had Blackforest cake and saw the world largest cuckoo clock, man his voice was deep.....LOL!

The next day we used that same car for a girls trip to Nuremberg and sushi.

'I Say A Little Prayer': A Novel

2006-06-13T07:36:00.000-07:00

I recently finished reading this book. I absolutely love E. Lynn Harris' writing. I have been reading his book since his first and I feel like I know his characters personally. He describes them so well you'd swear you ran into one of them on the street.

If your in the market for something different(his subject matter isn't for everyone) then I highly recommend his books.

Loving v. Virginia (1967)

2006-06-13T07:05:00.000-07:00

I realize I am a day late on this, but I didn't realize there was a push to celebrate this Supreme Court victory until today.

Good to know that it was legal by the time I was born. (Not that it mattered anyway.)

It is also interesting to note that some states never had any restrictions against interracial marriages. Is your state one of them?

A new beginning

2006-06-12T08:58:00.000-07:00

Today marks a step towards a new beginning. I have tendered my resignation to Unisys and I will be starting a new chapter with Dell.

As I'm sure many of you know, this opportunity has been at the top of my list for many years and this is a dream come true.

"Thank you" to everyone who listened to me complain, whine and dream and "Thanks" to all of you who will continue to be there for me.

Woo-Hoo!!!!!

Ft. Hood Visit-Part 2

2006-05-30T13:50:00.000-07:00

Way to strike a pose James......

....and James edges out the Old Dawg!

.....then Dante' wipes out. (Note the concern as his father and brother decide not to slow down too much)

Grandpa snatches the lead from James....

......awwwww, no more races for the day!

Dante's 6th Grade Promotion

2006-05-24T14:39:00.000-07:00

My baby is now a Jr. High young man.

(p.s Ignore the date, I still haven't set it.)

James and Cameron provide the usual entertainment......

................and later that night.....I needed a model for my new scarf......hmmmm???

Meet "Antwoine"...

Mr. and Mrs.

2006-05-17T09:31:00.000-07:00

Pics of our Ft. Hood visit

2006-05-17T08:31:00.000-07:00

Please ignore the date on the pictures, they were all taken this past weekend during our visit to Ft. Hood.

The guys.......

D and Anfernee (nephew).......

D and Felcia (sister)........

Dunkin' Donuts.....Proud Military Supporters

2006-05-11T13:40:00.000-07:00

Dunkin Donuts will send a case (24 one pound bags) to service members serving in Iraq. Dunkin Donuts donates the coffee and pays all the shipping costs. 50 recipients a month a chosen in a lottery.

The form is located in the "comments" section.

Demand is high so be patient.
You can also write with the same info to:
Dunkin Brands
130 Royall Street
Canton, MA 02121
Or call customer relations at 781-737-3000 (they are very friendly and helpful)

2006-05-11T13:07:00.000-07:00

New Favorite Show

2006-05-11T09:48:00.000-07:00

Thanks to my Dad, I have a new favorite show. THE UNIT

This show is about the soldiers and families of Delta force and based on the book "Inside Delta Force" by Eric L. Haney, CSM (Ret.). The soldiers have missions (usually successful) and they even have spouses. Their spouses actually have lives and issues to deal with while they guys are away. It's great! Even my kids are hooked on the show. They even have the coolest theme song, it would make a great ringtone. :)

Sleepless in Oklahoma!

2006-05-06T23:00:00.000-07:00

Well here we go again.....Here I am sitting up at 0100 unable to fall asleep and reluctant to even attempt getting into the bed. I've talked to other military wives who have a problem similar to this when the husband is deployed. I recently spoke with one woman who went so far as to move out of the master bedroom and into the guest room. She said that since she was sleeping in different bed it didn't feel like she was sleeping "ALONE".

My personal favorite is not washing the pillow case he last used. (Is that gross?)

Is this a common problem among wives? Do we all have trouble sleeping alone or sleeping without our spouse in the same building?

I'm interested in hearing how other people cope.

Night

2006-05-02T06:08:00.000-07:00

During my flight home on Sunday I read the most moving book, Night by Elie Wiesel.

I picked up the book as a friend (Lori C.) and I were walking through Target in WA. She stated that she read it in three hours and loved it. So I decided to pick it up for the flight home. Little did I know just how gut-wrenching this book would be.

Once I picked it up I couldn’t put it down. I felt as though Elie Wiesel was sitting in front of me giving his account of these events. I cringed when Moshe the Beadle gave his account of the being transported out of the city for not having proper identification.

Moshe goes from one Jewish household to the next telling his story. "Jews, listen to me. It's all I ask of you. I don't want money or pity. Only listen to me" (17). The cattle train crossed the border into Poland, he tells them, where it was taken over by the Gestapo, the German secret police. The Jews were singled out, transferred to lorries, and driven to the forest in Galicia, near Kolomaye, where they were forced to dig pits. When they had finished, each prisoner had to approach the hole, present his neck, and was shot. Babies were thrown into the air and used as targets by machine gunners. Moshe tells them about Malka, the young girl who took three days to die, and Tobias, the tailor who begged to be killed before his sons; and how he, Moshe, was shot in the leg and taken for dead. But the Jews of Sighet would not listen.

I cried when I read of the torment that he felt over his father. He loved and respected his father so much, yet faced with the basic needs of his own survival he couldn’t help but feel his father was a burden, dragging him down and threatening his ability to survive another day.

An alert sounds, the camp lights goes out, and Wiesel, exhausted, follows the crowd to the barracks, leaving his father behind. He wakes at dawn on a wooden bunk, remembering that he has a father, and goes in search of him.
But at that same moment this thought came into my mind. Don't let me find him! If only I could get rid of this dead weight, so that I could use all my strength to struggle for my own survival, and only worry about myself. Immediately I felt ashamed of myself, ashamed forever. (101)

How did these people find the strength and will to go on after days of pain, filth, despair, humiliation and degradation? Could I have that kind of will-power in the face of such evil or would I pray for the peace death would bring me? Would I be a devoted child or would I submit to my own human needs and resent those who were weaker and depended upon me?

In the morning, January 29, 1945, Eliezer finds another invalid lying in his father's place. The Kapos had come before dawn and taken him to the crematorium, possibly still alive.
His last word was my name. A summons, to which I did not respond.
I did not weep, and it pained me that I could not weep. But I had no more tears. And, in the depths of my being, in the recesses of my weakened conscience, could I have searched for it, I might perhaps have found something like — free at last! (106)

I hope to never be faced with nightmare that was 1941-1945.

I encourage everyone to read this book and in turn encourage many more to read it. It teaches a lesson that we all must never forget, but must always remember.

Hoo-rah to Erin Pacheco

2006-04-24T10:32:00.000-07:00

Army, Marine, Navy or Air Force......this needed to be said.

If I could email this woman I would send her a heartfelt "Thank You" for saying what she did in her letter to Stars & Stripes. I know many of us have heard the stories of scandalous wives and such, but not many speak highly of the good ones. (Who out number the the bad).

Give spouses more credit

Ugh, if I read one more letter belittling military spouses, I’m going to scream.
I’m so sick of hearing that caveman mentality quote of “If the Corps wanted you to have a wife/family, they would have issued you one.” What a slap in the face to those of us who have supported our loved one’s career, have dealt with numerous moves, even more deployments, raised our children alone and still manage to love the service our spouse serves. I’m not complaining, because this is what I chose — but no matter our choice, we still deserve respect.
I’ve been a military dependent almost my entire life, so that means two things: I knew exactly what I was getting into and I have earned the right to enlighten you ignorant folks about the life of a military spouse. So for those of you who don’t know, the wives don’t turn into Polly Pornstar when our husbands deploy, nor do we have a secret calendar counting down to Year 10 and Day 1 of their time in the Corps just so we can be entitled to half of their retirement. Usually we turn into supermom and are using the calendar for useful things, such as remembering which kid has an upcoming doctor’s appointment.
So the next time one of you single Marines starts to grumble about “those damn wives” who are on the gym treadmill or are whining about another holiday duty (and, for the record, married Marines pull Christmas duty too), remember that we feel the same way. Like when the base is locked down and a curfew is issued because a Marine assaulted or vandalized another Okinawan or their property while on a drunken spree. Or one of you messed up and the whole office is kept after hours.
We open our homes to you on holidays, offer you rides, sometimes even a place to sleep, and I’ve fed so many of you I should start accepting meal cards.
So when you return from deployment and find a goody bag containing cookies and phone cards, then climb into a bed with fresh sheets, remember to thank a spouse. Because while she was raising her children, running her house and worrying about her deployed husband, she still found time to think of you.
Was I issued? No, but I should have been. Spouses like me are the single greatest “pieces of gear” a Marine will ever have.

Erin M. Pacheco
Okinawa

How much did you want for that?

2006-04-19T08:46:00.000-07:00

I just can't pay $112.00 USD for knitting needles, who would?

It's OK

2006-04-19T08:34:00.000-07:00

I haven’t been much of a blogger lately, as I have been having trouble coming up with exciting things to write about. I think I am beginning to fall into the fog that is Oklahoma and its “OK” attitude. I no longer find myself full of passion for a certain subject or headline. I’m just BLAH. Those who know me also know how much I loved to argue or debate, just for the sake of doing so. I love to play “devil’s advocate” and pose difficult questions, but even controversial subjects no longer bring me excitement.

Duke Lacrosse team scandal-Boring
World Cup racism in Germany-Snore
Dahmer wannabe in OK-Zzzzz
Inside Opus Dei-Snoozefest 06

Maybe I should focus on more relevant news like the new celebrity to join Hollywood or just go Okie all the way!

It's OFFICIAL!!!!

2006-04-11T09:19:00.000-07:00

Brace yourselves...........

James PASSED the drivers test! (First time)

He is now a bonafide driver of American highways and byways. I'm so excited and frightened at the same time.

Today's quote, said by James upon passing "I'm gangsta like that!".

Who wants to go for a ride?

AGAIN?!? This wasn't supposed to happen!

2006-04-10T05:53:00.000-07:00

Yep, again!
Big Dawg is headed back to the desert. I had a really tough time digesting the news this time. As many of you know, we did not get much warning before the last deployment since it was the kick off and this time is no better. We basically got 3 weeks notice.

I'm finally past the crying fits (Thanks TK) and moving on to "Worry wart" status. Acceptance is not far off now. Dante' took the news very hard and wouldn't even speak to D for a while, but he is coping as well. James is his usual happy-go-lucky self and only remarked "Man!" when he got the news.

It will be tough without the physical presence of my support group, but having all of you in the blogsphere will mean the world to me. Even if it's just a virtual shoulder to cry on.

BTW, this would be a great time to come visit OK! (hint-hint) :)

Shot in the Dark: Do you really want a revolution?

2006-04-03T07:41:00.000-07:00

Interesting comment on the French.

Shot in the Dark: Do you really want a revolution?

So close, but so far!

2006-04-02T15:17:00.000-07:00

The Da Vinci code is right around the corner and I can't wait. However, Sony Pictures and Ron Howard have a completely different vision of Silas than what I imagined. Nonetheless, I will be there opening day!

There once was a book.....

2006-04-02T15:05:00.000-07:00

Some friends and I decided to purchase and subsequently read. To date, I do not know if anyone has completed this task.

Anyone?

Me in a previous life

2006-04-01T13:36:00.000-08:00

Knitting.....

2006-04-01T13:23:00.000-08:00

Well, here a couple of pics of my current attempts at knitting. One is my attempt at ribbing....Difficult to keep track of when people are bugging you constantly, but I like the outcome so far...

This should one day be a throw. ( Might I add, no dropped stitches, so far). :)

Since I have yet to meet anyone in OK to talk to or hang out with, I've resorted to thing like this or this to find knitting help and guidance.

Please ignore the date on the pic. I'm too lazy to reset it.

Sick and Disgusting!

2006-03-28T06:24:00.000-08:00

A fellow blogger and friend "Erin Rages" found a video from one of those sick and twisted religious AMERICAN protestors against the war in Iraq and the soldiers who fight it. While I'm all for expressing your views for or against the war, I find it downright sick and disgusting that someone would "thank God for dead soldiers". Anyone who celebrates death in the way these people do cannon possibly have their heads on right.

And yet, people wonder why I shy away from overt religion. It seems like the extremist are everywhere.

About me!

2006-03-27T15:00:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Erin, I'm giving everyone more of a look into what makes me, me!

Three Names You Go By:
1) Yvonne
2) Vonn
3) Mom

Three Things That Scare You:
1) Regan from The Exorcist.
2) Bugs, spider, critters and dogs above knee level. (Stop laughing)
3) Deantree, on a motorcycle (two accidents since it’s purchase)

Three of Your Everyday Essentials:
1) Coffee (Jacobs, Tullys or Starbucks)
2) Clinique (gotta have a face)
3) Pantene Light Spray Conditioner, without it I’m lost and scary.

Three Things You Are Wearing Right Now:
1) Standard black sweater.
2) Wool pants
3) Standard black loafers, can you tell I’m at work.

Two Truths and a Lie:
1) I once worked as a groomer in a pet store.
2) My dream is to be my own boss one day.
3) I hope to have extensive plastic surgery to fight old age.

Three of Your Favorite Hobbies:
1) Read true crime books2
2) Sims
3) Knitting

Three things you want to do right now:
1) Go Home!
2) Sleep
3) Shop

Three Things You Want to Do Before You Die:
1) Visit Egypt
2) Visit Greece
3) Visit the Australia (The Great Barrier Reef)

Three Ways that you are stereotypically a Girl/Guy:
1) I love to get manicures and pedicures (every 2 weeks)
2) I REALLY LOVE shoes.
3) I always have bad hair days.

A great NEW shopping site

2006-03-22T08:15:00.000-08:00

If you looking for a great gift for someone or yourself, check out this place.

Sara's Treasure Chest

The owner is a great guy who will surely succeed in this endeavor. He also offers items that can be purchased in bulk for fundraising (Kelly?).

Happy shopping all!

Happenings

2006-03-15T06:07:00.000-08:00

It has been a while since my last post...Mainly because the excitement of Lawton is killing me. Now that basketball season is over, we no longer have a Monday night routine. Dante's team ended the season 2-8, which is not bad when you consider they only practiced one night a week and once they won their first game he cancelled practice altogether.

James is running track again and his first meet is coming up. He practices 4 days a week and is so proud that he can run 3 miles without having to walk any of it. :)

Deantree recently called DA to find out about any openings at Ft. Irwin and was told there were AC/RC slot open at Ft. Drum, Ft. Polk, Ft. Lewis and others I don't remember. We're still holding out for a slot to open at Irwin. Until then we await his units deactivation and his eventual move to TRADOC.

As for me, I did find an upcoming oil painting class a the local Hobby Lobby, but painting is not really my cup of tea. However, thanks to Jen D. I know now that I can join one of 3 vampire meetings in my area.....LOL! Also, after a bit more research I also found quite a few Wiccan groups as well.

Gotta love Oklahoma!

Boredom

2006-03-06T13:49:00.000-08:00

I've tried so hard to think of something worth reading/writing to post, but I can't think of anything. I went exploring this weekend hoping to find a knitting class/club, book club or some sort of place to go to get out of the house. The result: I found NOTHING!

I went to the local version of Borders/Barnes & Noble, called Hastings....NADA.
Hobby Lobby surely should have something posted......NOPE.
Next weekend, I will travel on base and hope to find something at ITR, I doubt it seriously.

What is left to do? Anyone out there have any suggestions?!

Madea is BACK!

2006-02-27T07:54:00.000-08:00

If cannot go see the movie yet, I highly recommend visiting the website:

http://www.madeasfamilyreunionmovie.com/

Also, please pick up the soundtrack.......Al Green is always a GREAT choice.

Isn't this the COOLEST?

2006-02-23T08:01:00.000-08:00

I caught a blurb of this on GMA yesterday morning.

As a mixed woman I found this article both exciting and scary. I'm not sure how I would have reacted to having one of my children come out this way, mainly because it just seems so strange to me. (Yes, I know it was a possibility, but yet it happens so rarely that it seems odd.)

Behold the future of America.

Man, I love this interracial thing!

You can read more at http://www.mixedmediawatch.com/

Where do I live?

2006-02-17T05:59:00.000-08:00

I can't believe the weather in this place. Yesterday we had a comfortable 78 degree day with some heavy winds last night, but today it's a different story. We wake today to 24 degrees and a wind chill of 10. WTF? This is not normal.

Don't get me wrong, people did warn me about Oklahoma temperatures, but 50 degrees in 24 hours. That's just wrong! Of course, to add insult to injury we are expecting sleet and some snow over the weekend, and then it's right back up to mid 50's and 60's for next week. It's wonder everyone is not walking around with pneumonia!

Last Update on Feb 17, 5:53 am CST

Fair24°F(-4°C)

Humidity: 60 %
Wind Speed: N 20 MPH
Barometer: 30.52" (1034.4 mb)
Dewpoint: 12°F (-11°C)
Wind Chill: 10°F (-12°C)
Visibility: 10.00 mi.

A Win!

2006-02-14T06:29:00.000-08:00

Dante's team won their first basketball game last night. YEAH BABY, 22-20!This team sucks so bad! They only practice once a week (if that) for 1 hour. Lately, the coach has been skipping practice all together.

This community allows for basketball teams to be stacked. Meaning kids from one school can sign up with any school they see fit. We did not know this in the beginning, therefore Dante' was stuck with his schools team. Most of them have never played before and the Coach wants everyone to just have a good time. "Winning doesn't matter". I personally think it matters and so does Dante'. Needless to say, he is furious with his team this year. We keep reminding him that this is just a warm up to next year. It doesn't really convince him, but calms him for the next game.

As for James, he is in pre-season practice for track. Looks like he'll be doing high jump, long jump, 400 and 800. I don't know if he can keep up the pace for all four events, but I'm rooting for him. He complaining of sore legs daily. (They run 3 miles M-Th). I'm so proud of him......I'll be in the stands screaming like a fool for another year!

Go Kids!

Smooches

2006-02-14T06:26:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day to all!

Don't wait for Valentines Day to let someone know they are loved. Tell it and show it everyday!

Not Tagged, but looks like fun!

2006-02-07T06:02:00.000-08:00

Since I haven't really described much about myself, I figured this would do it in one swift punch.

4 Jobs You Have Had in Your Life
1. Pet shop clerk (pooper scooper/groomer)
2. Deli Clerk
3. Printer/Typesetter
4. General Computer Geek

4 Movies You Would Watch Over and Over
1. Full Metal Jacket
2. Grease
3. Imitation of Life (1959)
4. Yours, Mine and Ours (Original)

4 Places You Have Lived
1. Washington
2. Germany
3. Hawaii
4. Texas, California, New Hamphire, Kentucky, Oklahoma

4 TV Shows You Love to Watch
1. Law and Order: Criminal Intent
2. Law and Order: SVU
3. Nip/Tuck
4. The Flavor of Love (Train wreck TV)

4 Places You Have Been on Vacation
1. Disneyland/Universal Studios
2. Garmisch
3. Las Vegas
4. Baden Baden

4 Web- sites You Visit Daily
1. Google News (CNN, MSNBC, Reuters, BBC)
2. Trying to Grok
3. www.cpol.army.mil
4. Unisys portal

4 Favorite Foods
1. Brussel Sprouts
2. King Crab
3. Salmon (preferably NW)
4. Chocolate (Dove)

4 Places You Would Rather Be Right Now
1. Las Vegas
2. Germany
3. In Bed
4. Greece or Krakow (it's a toss up)

Time

2006-02-05T13:35:00.000-08:00

Well, it's now February 2006 and I have been in Oklahoma for 8 months. Overall it's been good, but I feel as though I have accomplished nothing. Yes, I've secured employment with a good company, but thanks to BRAC that job will be gone in Dec. 06. Of course, Unisys has offered to transfer me to another one of their sites, such as; Cleveland, Columbus, Indianapolis, Denver, Pensacola, Rome, and Limestone. Anyone who knows me, knows that every single on of these options is not an option at all.
Since Lawton is not exactly the hotbed of the IT world, I can always commute 80 miles north to Oklahoma City. I've been up there 3 times now and I thought it was a great city, but 80 miles (1 hour 10 minutes) each way! Everyday! It's all highway driving and pretty empty, but what about ......dun dun dunnnnnnnnnn Tornandoes!
I've looked around during the drive up there. There is nothing! I know they say find a ditch, I don't see ditches only dips in the fields. What about the under passes..hmmmm! Few and far between. Is my life really worth 80 miles each way, everyday. What about thunderstorms....oooooohhh, I hate those too! Love it when I'm at home, but on the road, it's just scary!
I've also considered moving to another state and letting the husband fend for himself, but that just doesn't seem right.

All in all, I don't really know what to do. If anyone has any suggestions, feel free to offer them.

2006

2006-01-04T17:42:00.000-08:00

Happy 2006 to everyone!

I know I haven't really been on top of this blogging thing, but my New Years resolution is to be consistent. Those of you who know me also know how much of a struggle this will be. Anyway, out with the old and in with new.

So far '06 is going well. The job prospects are looking up for me, D is beginning to get comfortable in his desk job, James is looking for a new job (the old place went out of business), and Dante' is back in basketball and doing what he loves most.

Toast to the future!

Championship results

2005-12-17T19:25:00.000-08:00

Well, we didn't win the championship game, but the game was GREAT anyway. Final score was 20-6.
The guys led onto the field by 11 guys on roaring Harley's with Santa leading the way on a red one. Red and white balloons were released into the air as they broke through the banner held by the cheerleaders. It was so cool! Dante' even made it onto the morning news.

When it was all over I walked over to Dante' to console him on their loss. I told him that he played great and they were still one of the best teams in Lawton. In true Dante' style he answered "I'm not sad, now basketball can start".

So.......on to basketball we go!

Championships

2005-12-11T11:30:00.000-08:00

Yes, I know.......

It has been almost a month since I have posted any information. However, today I have great news to share. Last night Dante's team played in the playoff against a team that had previously beat them and won. It was a great game that ended with a score of 15-13. This means they have made it to the championship game for Lawton Midgets.

Game time is Monday night at 1930. They will play Hugh Bishop elementary. Hugh Bish has some big kids, but I think we can take them. Wish them luck and say a prayer for the Woodland Hills Woodsmen.

Go Woodsmen!

Kerri

2005-11-22T08:32:00.000-08:00

First Project

2005-11-13T17:50:00.000-08:00

OK....So we began our first project. We painted the Master bedroom. The color didn't show up to well on camera. The name of the color is Copper Hide. Let me know what you think!

I think I saw a monster!

2005-11-11T14:43:00.000-08:00

Thank Goodness for Mommy!

Sure it'll fit!

2005-11-11T14:31:00.000-08:00

Mommy thinks this will all fit......how did she get it all here in the first place?

I'm almost a Man!

2005-11-11T13:44:00.000-08:00

Yes, this picture is the sample pic they send before you buy a package.

Yeah.........I'm a SUPERSTAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2005-11-11T13:23:00.000-08:00

Dante' OR Deantree.....who can tell them apart?

2005-11-11T13:18:00.000-08:00

Guys and their dates

2005-11-11T13:17:00.000-08:00

The Guys of homecoming 05

2005-11-11T13:10:00.000-08:00

Oklahoma

2005-11-09T20:55:00.000-08:00

Well it's November in Oklahoma and oddly enough we still like it. Football season is coming to a close and we are gearing up for the next phase.
James is finally getting better grades in school and Dante' got the hint as well. As for me and Deantree....................we are still trying to figure out which home improvement project to take on first. I'm sure we'll start one sometime around January. :)

Happy Halloween!!!!!!!!!

2005-10-31T14:39:00.000-08:00

2005-10-21T14:52:00.000-07:00

2005-10-21T14:32:00.000-07:00

MMMMM!!!

2005-10-21T12:50:00.000-07:00